IS THERE LOVE WITHOUT TRUST?

Love comes by easily but it takes years to build trust. George MacDonald said " to be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved"
A similar question was asked in Yahoo Answer. Is there love without trust? The most voted answer was this

"NO>NO>N0> I have been in love with a woman for 32 years, we have loved each other with a passion but do not trust each other hence we have never married".

All he was trying to say is that they are deeply in love for

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THE WORLD WITHOUT TRUST

Have you decided never to trust again?

Are you willing to take the risk?

It takes years to build trust and few seconds to destroy it, we are expected to trust our friends, families and loved ones, but it is quite unfortunate that they are the people who stands the better chances of betraying the trust we have in them. Our enemies are out of the question because we would never trust them even for a second.
It really hurts when someone we trust or love betrays the trust we have in them, from then forth trust becomes a nightmare, it disappears.

Friedric Nietzche once said "I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you". There is this other quote that says " Trust is like a vase once broken, though you can fix it, but the vase will never be the same again".

WHY IS OUR TRUST BETRAYED?
Sometimes we contribute 40% of our problems. When we want people to be whom they are not,
they pretend to be whom we want them to be, when they can't go on with the pretence, we assume that we've been betrayed.
The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are, instead we trust people to be who we want them to be, and when they're not, we cry.
WHO IS TO BE TRUSTED?
Here is the big question, who is to be trusted?
Most times we trust those who doesn't deserve our our trust. People who always do things beyond our expectations to gain our trust should be careful with, because they may be looking for something else. We should be careful with people like that.
DOES ANYONE TRUST ME?
If you are reading this article, know that someone trusts you and they would not want you to betray them. It took days, weeks, months, and years to build those trust and you wouldn't want to destroy it in seconds, that was why George MacDonald said "to be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved". Trust is more fragile than love.
CAN WE TRUST?
Yes we have to trust, William Shakespare wrote, " trust but verify" her short and meaningful quote answers the one question that billions of people in the world seek to find answers to.
Finally, trust but be careful and don't forget William Shakespare quote.

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THE MAGIC POWER OF LOVE

Its interesting to know that love is blind. Its like a magic that gets you enslave when you dont expect. It fools you around and make you do foolish things. Probably, you had being hurt and dismantled from sanity by this profound power of love in the past, never mind. I have a good news for you. Someone hidden loves you. Guess whom it is - its Jesus Christ. Love is not selfish. It wants the best for you and not your downfall. My dear, dont be deceived by this mystical affluence of love. Your love for someone should be unconditional, not based on sex. It ought to be practically demonstrated by either caring, giving, advice, encouragement and assistance.True love entails practical expression and not just expression in word. The love I am refering to is the love of Jesus Christ towards us.His love was demonstrative, his undisputed love led to his death on the cross for our sake. His love is truely blind. He died not just for a tribe or nation but for all. Imagine the force revolving around love. As an individual you think that nobody loves you, there is rest for you in christ. Love is strangely powerful. The society is not love rated, this leads to hostile behaviour of man to his fellow man. What a world!Love is magical, its intensity is great and should not be abused. Nevertheless its profundity ought not to be underestimated.

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